Battling Holiday Depression
By alex padalka


Depression peaks during the holidays, with some estimates claiming 17.6 million Americans affected each year. The holidays are a particularly hard time for people who recently suffered the loss of a loved one, separation from a spouse, or falling out with a family. There is expectation that holidays are a time of joy and giving, and when those expectations are not met things can seem pretty severe. Add to that the financial costs of the holidays and Christmas doesn’t seem so bright and cheery anymore. Furthermore, even people who stay with close family and friends sink into depression as a result of withdrawal following Jan.1.

And while not everyone goes through the exhaustive ordeal of severe depression, a whopping 34 percent of men and 44 percent of women in the United States report feeling “blue” during the holidays, according to a study by Pacific Health Laboratories.

SAD – Seasonal Affective Disorder
Some of the blues can be attributed to seasonal affective disorder (SAD), which results from fewer hours of sunlight during the shorter winter days. While it affects a relatively small portion of the population, SAD has been acknowledged all over the world, particularly in Northern regions. Phototherapy is a treatment for SAD that involves a few hours of exposure of intense light, and is offered at several hospitals.

Suicide
Suicide is the third leading cause of death for people between the ages of 15 and 24. Caucasian men over the age of 80 are six times more likely than any other demographic group to commit suicide. Now the good news. Contrary to myth, suicides do not peak during the holidays. According to the National Center for Health Statistics, suicides drop during the winter months and usually peak during spring. Researchers further claim that the disproportionate media attention given to holiday suicides may actually cause “copycat” suicides in vulnerable individuals.

Signs of Depression
Symptoms of depression include persistent sad, anxious or empty moods; sleeping too much or too little; loss or gain of appetite and weight; loss of interest or pleasure in activities, including sexual activities; irritability or restlessness; difficulty thinking, concentrating, remembering or making decisions; fatigue and loss of energy; and thoughts of death or suicide.

Fighting Depression
Dr. Len Tuzman, Director of Social Work at Hillside Hospital and a stress management expert, recommends being with friends during the holidays. However, he discourages being around former spouses or people that may cause additional emotional strain. For those with alcohol or drug problems, it’s important to stay as far away from bars as possible – drinking enhances depression, to never-before seen levels. Tuzman suggests volunteering instead, or doing something else with new people in a new environment.

The National Mental Health Association further recommends keeping expectations manageable and setting realistic goals for what can be achieved, and enjoying activities that are free, to avoid feeling depressed because of the drain on your wallet.

Treating Depression
Several organizations in Queens help people suffering from depression, from individual and group counseling to psychotherapy. The Forest Hills Center for Private Practice, the Hillside Psychological Guidance Center and the Bayside Consultation and Counseling Center all offer various level of assistance.

In addition, there is a volunteer counseling service offered nationwide for people thinking about suicide – they can be reached 24 hours a day, seven days a week at 1-800-SUICIDE.