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Pleasure In The Park
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| Condoms, wrappers and other trash litter the ground in some areas.
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By IMAN KHAN
As the last few joggers and bikers make their way out of Forest Park, it is mostly silent. Dusk quickly fades to night and a new group of people begins to quietly make their presence known by the sound of their careful footsteps.
Along Forest Park Drive, between Metropolitan Avenue and Mayfair Road, the ample greenery and bush provide cover to keep people, and any secrets they hold, hidden from view. And here, when the light goes away, the men come out to play. Heading down the maze-like bicycle paths in the park, men of all colors, races, and sizes can be found standing along the way, in clusters or by themselves. The men are fully dressed, unthreatening and quiet. Some stand still and stare, others gesture with hand signals while others repeatedly walk by, trying to create eye contact.
After contact is made, and interest is reciprocated, the men disappear, usually in twos, but sometimes in threes or fours. Movement can be heard in the bushes. A closer look reveals men’s faces and their bare lower torsos, often in compromising positions. The deafening sounds of cars and horns from the road make their noises inaudible as the bushes keep them out of plain sight.
An Investigation Begins
Earlier this month, a community resident wrote to the Queens Tribune to express concern regarding public sex being performed at Forest Park. The resident was worried about potential health hazards and drugs being used by the men she was alleging were engaging in these public acts of sex in the park.
After observing the area in question numerous times over the course of a month, and speaking with a variety of experts regarding public sex and at-risk behaviors, it became apparent that the issue brought to light by this resident was much larger and had a much broader context than it initially appeared.
Condom wrappers and condoms, some decomposing, some fresh, can be found all over the park, along with discarded underwear, soiled napkins and the likes. There are heavy concentrations of the used condoms in places that are more secluded, but they are visible in quite a few open spots as well.
In an attempt to capture images of the piles of discarded sexual paraphernalia, a reporter and photographer entered the park during the daytime, not expecting to witness sexual acts that residents said usually occurred at night. But during that time, around 1:30 p.m., several men were observed performing sexual acts, not far from the main path where people jog, bike and walk with their young children.
An Old Tradition
According to Dr. Perry Halkitis, Director Center for Health, Identity, Behavior and Prevention Studies (CHIBPS) at New York University, there is a long tradition of men having sex with men in public venues all over the world. Halkitis believes that the tradition began during a more conservative era when being gay was much less acceptable and there were no socially accepted venues for gay or bisexual men to freely express themselves. During that time, having sex in public venues served both the emotional and physical needs of the men who engaged in the act while providing these same men with anonymity.
Yet in New York City, arguably one of the most progressive and open metropolises in the world, the problem persists.
“Married men who identify as heterosexual have no other venues,” Halkitis said. “Ethnic and cultural minorities who come from backgrounds with no room for homosexuality would be prone public venues – the more confined of an environment an individual comes from in relation to expressing his identity, the more likely he is to engage in public sex.”
According to Karen Taylor, director of Senior Action in a Gay Environment, a project of the Forest Hills Community House, many of these men may feel as though they have no other options to satisfy these parts of their identities.
“Especially right now, with the debate in City Hall over installing cameras in front of nightclubs, there is no safe place for these men to go and retain their anonymity,” said Taylor. “I understand the safety issue, but there is also an invasion of privacy.”
Dr. Danny Garza, founder of the Open Door Clinic of Elmhurst Hospital Center serving the mental health needs of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender population, believes that there is another sub-group that frequents these parks.
“There is a group that likes to have sex in public as a fetish,” said Garza. “For some, risking arrest holds the erotic charge of the encounter.”
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| This Path in the southeast section of the park leads to darkened corners where people have sex outdoors.
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Cause For Concern?
Both doctors agreed that the greatest health risks posed as a result of these acts is to the men themselves and not the public community.
“Research indicates that the men are not always having safer sex. There is no large availability of condoms or lubricant in public places,” said Halkitis. “However, HIV and other pathogens don’t live outside of the body for a long time, so the public has less to fear than the men who are actually engaged.”
“Clandestine sex on the fly is not going to harness safe sex practices as a priority,” Garza said. “The likelihood they will be safe and mutually respectful diminishes as a result of being anonymous.”
Garza pointed to other problems with the anonymous nature of public sex. He believes that anti-gay predators can more easily victimize homosexuals when isolated in a public place. There is also the issue of gay or bisexual youths being taken advantage of by older men, he said.
Changing Attitudes
A frequenter of the cruising spots at Forest Park wishing to remain anonymous said that he believes that the number of people coming to the park has gone down tremendously over the past few years. Even as recently as 2003, he said hundreds of men could be found in the park on any given summer night, whereas now there’s usually about 40-50.
Halkitis, for one, does not believe that anonymous sex has decreased. Instead, he thinks that many of the men who once frequented the park are now using the Internet to serve the same purpose. He also believes that Queens, being a part of New York City, would be less likely to have big venues for such activities since it is a part of a metropolitan community.
“The further you go away from large metropolises, the more likely you are to find married men acting out sexual behaviors with other men,” he said.
Halkitis notes that Queens, however, is not Manhattan, and encompasses many of the qualities of suburban life as well as a strong immigrant community, both parameters which are not conducive to being gay or bisexual.
“Latino men come from a strong culture of machismo, where being gay is not masculine,” Halkitis said. “African American communities are immersed in church, where there is also no room for homosexuality.”
The obstacles faced in regards to homosexuality or bisexuality by Latinos and African Americans in their respective communities is even more exasperated in newer immigrant communities in which homosexuality is not prevalent or discussed in the communities the immigrants come from, according to Halkitis.
Garza pointed out that with the newer immigrants, there has been no establishment of gay pride because they were not around for the gay movement, which liberated many Americans and their communities in regards to gay and bisexual lifestyles.
While there may be many social factors contributing to why these men are seeking out public venues to engage in acts of sex, the fact remains that these acts are illegal.
The NYPD’s Patrol Borough was contacted for comment on this story. While unable to provide any specific information, a spokesman said that police are indeed patrolling the parks and doing the best they can, given their resources. |
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