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Fourth-Graders’ Newspaper A Neighborhood Phenomenon
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| Neighborhood Boy writers Gabriel Dekker-Lee (l), Jake Saunders (c), Harlan Boar, and Gabriel’s mother Maryfaith.
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By AZI PAYBARAH
After publishing a local soldier’s fear about going to war, the death of a pet hamster and birth of a guinea pig in a pet store’s front window, the 11-year-old editors of neighborhood Boy won’t discuss the one story that led them to write one of the borough’s only independent, all-kid publications.
According to Gabriel Dekker-Lee and Harlan Boar, the birth of neighborhood Boy started when the two fought about the rules in Yugioh, a role-playing card game. Sitting inside Café Ten63 in Long Island City, where kids attending an editorial board meeting for neighborhood Boy disbanded for playtime, Gabriel recalled, “He wouldn’t let me – ”
“I don’t want to talk about it,” Boar sheepishly interjected. Lifting his eyes up from the table slightly, he simply added, “It was really nasty.”
Holding onto the cards with both hands, Dekker-Lee took note of Boar’s sensitivity to the issue, and admitted, “That night I was the angriest at him [I’d ever been] in my whole life. I don’t want to recall it at all.”
Starting Up
Urging Dekker-Lee down that tough road of communication was his mother, Maryfaith. A year ago, Dekker-Lee’s parents divorced, turning him from a home-schooled child with a two-parent household, into a public school fourth-grader from a single-parent home. To help him work through these and other changes, his mother, Maryfaith, suggested he take pen to paper and write things out.
After Dekker-Lee’s argument with his best friend exploded onto neighborhood Boy’s pages, the ax was buried, friendship restored. But a paper was born, and an audience was beginning to follow. That was 22 issues ago.
In a mother-son interview during one of the meeting’s many breaks, Maryfaith explained the paper is “a reflection of the thought words and interests of kids in this neighborhood.” As Gabriel began to interject, Maryfaith wrapped her hand around his mouth, laughed and added, “without interference from adults.”
Financing Free Speech
Every week, new editions of the eight-page paper are stuffed into a wooden box inside Ten63, delivered fresh from the copy machine across the street at Queens Progress. Already, the paper has turned out a nice profit for its pint-sized founders.
“I don’t have an exact figure, not now,” Gabriel said when asked about the paper’s finances.
Last year, Café Ten63, the paper’s major advertiser, purchased the rights to neighborhood Boy, and currently sells t-shirts bearing the paper’s name. Other businesses have followed suit, paying the youngsters to be seen in the paper, including Queens Progress, Bella Via Restaurant on Vernon Blvd., the City Mouse Toy Shop, just over the bridge in Brooklyn.
In the eight-page publication, as many as three or four advertisers can be seen. Sometimes, though, only one.
“We have about $60,” Gabriel said, estimating his paper’s current cash status. During an editorial board meeting, his mother, Maryfaith, explained why. “You guys have been spending your profits as fast as you have been making it.”
When asked about the cost of printing, Gabriel explained it was a major expense, but “Depending on who’s at the copy shop, there’s a nice girl – ”
Cutting him off, Maryfaith said, “I don’t think we should publish that.” Pausing for a moment, and probably thinking of the adult voice she dutifully tries to keep out of neighborhood Boy, Maryfaith relented and added, “Maybe we should.”
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| Movie critic Jake Saunders who reviewd “Terminator 3”, The movie I can’t see.”
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Look Who’s Reading
Although written by kids still in elementary school, it’s the paper’s older readers who often take away the most from what is written.
One parent said, she heard “my own voice,” when she read her daughter’s comments in the How Come column. One week, the question submitted asked simply, “Why I Can’t,” turning the column into a word association game. “Olivia answered ‘Because I don’t have enough time.’ I heard my own voice,” said Olivia’s mother, Elaine Chu. “That’s what I say to her all the time.”
In another instance of grown-up education, Gabriel interviewed a child anonymously for a piece called, “Kids Whose Parents Smoke.” In it, he explained, “They asked not to reveal their name to protect their father’s feelings.” Maryfaith, proud of the ethic landmines her son’s journalism has had to maneuver around said, “We wondered if that would offend his parents, but we published it and they had a nice talk about it.”
In the interview, Gabriel asked, “Does your parent know how you feel about his smoking?”
“Yes and no,” the person responded. “Because my dad knows it’s bad and he’s trying his best to stop but I worry he’s not in good shape with smoking. I think he’ll pull through.”
Neighborhood Boy doesn’t shy away from tough issues. In three consecutive front-page stories, they described a Mother’s Day car accident, the death of a Sunnyside classmate, Hallie Geier, and the school ban on jelly bracelets because they “designate sexual activity…” In issue 5, the paper interviewed Renee, “A neighborhood girl goes to War.” Renee, a reservist in transport management whose last name was not printed, said, “The recruiter said there was a chance to get deployed but that I probably wouldn’t get called up…I don’t believe in this cause. A lot of us don’t. We didn’t think it would go to this extent.”
“Are you afraid?” Garbriel asked.
“Yeah, I’m pretty afraid. I’m most afraid because I don’t know where I’m going. They tell us everyday and then change it every day. You can’t believe anyone. Iraq, Afghanistan, Kuwait, Haiti or even stateside or Cuba. You don’t know until you get on the plane. Even when you get there they could take you somewhere else.”
Reading For Grown-Ups
This open forum for kid’s thoughts is exactly what the doctor ordered, according to Dr. Rapheal Javier, who heads St. John’s University Clinic for Psychological Services. “One thing I usually say to parents is that communication does not just come from anywhere. It’s a building process that sometimes takes a very indirect road, so the child feels comfortable.”
“Find time with kid, and have fun with the kid, and ask in the process what’s going on with the kid,” Javier recommended, “so they don’t feel it’s an interrogation.”
A major issues parents face is discussing divorce. With nearly half of all marriages ending in divorce, it is increasingly becoming the most popular issue not talked about properly with children. Javier said, “Once you realize there will be a disruption in the family that will be affecting the kids, then it will be an important sit down with the kids…Just indicate that we are planning to have a separation, a divorce, and hopefully it will be a progression, and not just a goodbye.”
Like CNN and the Weather Channel, Javier said updates on what is going on are best for kids. “They [the kids] know there’s problems in the marriage before they get a divorce…it can have a very horrible impact on kids, where everything appears to be dandy.”
If the news of a divorce comes suddenly, kids may wonder, “Wait a minute! When did that happen? What did I miss? I saw you kissing and laughing with one another, what happened?” Javier said. |
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