Calendar
Of The BrideA year before the wedding is the perfect time to start planning the
Big Day. We have created the following checklist for you to stay organized.
Eighteen
To Twelve Months Before The Wedding |
Decide on a wedding date. Make an
appointment with your priest.
Discuss with your fiancée and family how much you want to
spend.
Assemble your wedding guest list in consultation with both
families.
Pick a reception venue and make the necessary reservations
(hall, caterer). NOTE: some popular banquet halls are booked two years in advance
on
Saturdays in June.
Shop for the engagement ring.
Eight To
Ten Months Before The Wedding |
Shop for your wedding dress and
veil. Several fittings are usually required.
Select china, crystal and silverware patterns and register
them in the Wedding Gift Registry at your favorite store.
Select your bridesmaids.
Set the date to order dresses for the bridesmaids and
attendants.
Pick a honeymoon destination. Check to see if your
passports need to be renewed and if any inoculations are required for foreign
destinations.
Hire a candid photographer and inform him/her of the
location of the wedding, reception, and any other functions you want photographed.
Six To
Eight Months Before The Wedding |
Finalize your guest list and
compare it with your fiancées. Strike out any duplications. Divide the list into
those receiving invitations and those receiving announcements only.
Order your invitations and announcements. Insist that the
envelopes be delivered right away so you can begin addressing them. They should be mailed
four weeks before the wedding.
Order your personal stationery and thank-you notes.
Decide on a color scheme for your wedding and inform your
mother and your fiancées mother so they can find compatible colored dresses and hem
lengths.
Talk to a florist about which flowers will match the color
scheme youve chosen for your wedding.
Three
Months Before The Wedding |
Confirm the delivery date of your
gown and make the final selection of the attendants dresses.
Make an appointment for your bridal portrait.
Order your wedding cake if it is not to be made by the
reception caterer.
Arrange the transportation for all members of your wedding
party to and from the ceremony and reception by reserving limousines or other
transportation.
Make an appointment for an examination with your family
doctor or gynecologist which includes your necessary blood tests for the marriage license
and any shots required for your honeymoon.
Inform your priest of all the details of your ceremony
including flowers, music, photographs, canopies, carpets, etc.
Discuss the details of your reception with the caterer
and/or hotel manager. If youll be renting any equipment, reserve it now.
One
Month Before The Wedding |
Mail the invitations.
Have the final fitting for your gown and confirm the date
for your bridal portrait.
Select and order gifts for the attendants. Bridesmaids
usually receive the same gift. For the maid or matron of honor, get something a little
more special.
Choose wedding bands.
Make room reservations for out-of-town attendants.
Its a good idea to pay in advance and have them reimburse you later.
Make necessary arrangements for the bridesmaids
luncheon or dinner.
Discuss plans for the rehearsal dinner with the hosts.
Keep up with your correspondence. Its a good idea to
start addressing your announcements now so they can all go out together the day after the
wedding.
If you decided to exchange gifts, choose a present for your
groom.
Two
Weeks Before The Wedding |
Go with your fiancée to fill out
the necessary forms for your marriage license.
Phone the society editors of your local papers to find out
what information is required for your wedding announcements.
Plan with your hairdresser for a wedding hair-do. Bring
your headpiece and veil, and make an appointment if you want your hair done the day of the
wedding.
If you are changing your name, arrange to change your name
and address on official documents (drivers license, bank accounts, insurance, and
health policies, etc.)
Deliver your wedding announcement to the local papers
society editor.
One Week
Before The Wedding |
Start your honeymoon packing.
Check to see wedding announcements are all addressed,
stamped and ready for your parents to mail the day after the wedding.
Go or give the bridesmaids dinner or luncheon.
Schedule your rehearsal for one or two days before the
wedding. Inform participants of the exact time and place.
Wrap and present gifts to your attendants at the
bridesmaids party or rehearsal dinner.
Inform the caterer of the exact number of confirmed guests
at the reception.
Go over the final details of the ceremony and reception
with all the parties involved (priest, organist, florist, photographer, etc.)
Relax. Take a day off just before the wedding to pamper
yourself with a facial, pedicure, manicure and massage. Its the perfect way to
prepare for the big day.

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